{"id":2320,"date":"2015-12-06T17:32:02","date_gmt":"2015-12-06T15:32:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/hbne.co.il\/?p=2320"},"modified":"2019-11-05T13:42:07","modified_gmt":"2019-11-05T11:42:07","slug":"we-loved-not-enough","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hbne.co.il\/?p=2320","title":{"rendered":"We Loved Not Enough"},"content":{"rendered":"<p dir=\"ltr\"><a href=\"http:\/\/hbne.co.il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/dad-and-me.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-2304 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/hbne.co.il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/dad-and-me.jpg\" alt=\"dad and me\" width=\"716\" height=\"535\" srcset=\"https:\/\/hbne.co.il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/dad-and-me.jpg 716w, https:\/\/hbne.co.il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/dad-and-me-300x224.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 716px) 100vw, 716px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<h2 dir=\"ltr\">A Daughter\u2019s Longing<\/h2>\n<blockquote>\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><em>Dear Dad,\u200e<\/em><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><em>You left abruptly. Although you made every effort to let us know that your \u200etime was limited, I chose to let your words pass over me. Your doctors \u200ewarned of severe arteriosclerotic heart disease with an exceptionally \u200eenlarged heart. A prompt heart transplant was your only hope, otherwise \u200eyou had but a few months to live. \u200e<\/em><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><em>We were oceans apart: you in the golden state and me in the land of milk \u200eand honey. Not yet thirty, I was a young mother with two toddlers and I \u200epreferred to suppress this depressing news and bury it deep. In the past, \u200eyou had been known to over exaggerate on occasion, and I found comfort in \u200ebelieving that this was but another inflated disclosure.\u200e<\/em><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><em>In retrospect, it should have come as no surprise, all of the warning signals \u200ewere there: obesity, depression, high blood pressure, a diet rich in fats and \u200esugars and a lack of physical activity. At the time heart transplants were \u200einnovative and the surgical teams were pioneering their way. Against all \u200eodds, you hoped that your case would pique the interest of UCLA\u2019s medical \u200etransplant team. For it was very clear that without medical insurance or \u200efinancial means, you had no hopes of financing the costly procedure.\u200e<\/em><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><em>We were penniless \u201ckibbitzniks\u201d. Even if we had wanted to come to your \u200eaid, we had nothing to contribute.\u200e<\/em><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><em>Dad, you were a gadget freak, innovator and computer pioneer. How in \u200echaracter would it have been for you to have gone under the knife at the \u200eforefront of medical technology! You were always the first on your block to \u200ehave the latest electronic device. This last time lady luck was nowhere to be \u200efound. You never made it to the operating table.\u200e<\/em><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><strong><em>Your prophecy came to life as a few months later you left this world.\u00a0<\/em><em>You \u200ewere but 54 years in your passing!\u200e<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<h2 dir=\"ltr\">At the Forefront<\/h2>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">It was 1989. While the surgical elite perfected the cutting edge and \u200ecomplicated surgery, a handful of lone healers, in search of &quot;whole hearted \u200ehealth&quot;, walked the unbeaten path towards their nonetheless innovative \u200evision.\u200e<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">About this time, an American surgeon became aware of areas in the world \u200ewhere heart disease was virtually nonexistent. Peoples such as the Papua \u200eHighlanders of New Guinea, central Africans, Rural China, and the \u200eTarahumara Indians of northern Mexico who were strangers to heart \u200edisease.\u200e<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">The correlating factor appeared to be a vegan diet based on plant based \u200enutrition.\u200e<\/p>\n<h2 dir=\"ltr\">Dr. Caldwell B. Esselstyn, Jr.\u200e<\/h2>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">Dr. Caldwell B. Esselstyn Jr. was one of those lone pioneers. He was \u200efrustrated that modern medicine seemed unable to prevent the next patient \u200efrom knocking on his door. In search of true healing and prevention of the \u200ewestern chronic disease epidemic, he envisioned himself doing more than \u200ejust disease management.\u200e<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">He decided to devote his time and efforts to tackling the number one cause \u200eof western deaths: coronary heart disease.\u200e<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">In addition to his surgical workload, he asked to take on a group of \u200ecritically ill patients. Thus he found himself leading a group of 24 \u201cwalking \u200edead\u201d, coronary heart disease patients. The \u201cwalking dead\u201d had failed \u200ebypasses, triple bypasses and angiograms had no further viable surgical \u200eoptions available.\u200e<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">Understanding that if the problem had been created on a plate, then there \u200etoo the solution was to be found, Dr. Esselstyn decided to establish a \u200enutritional focus. His patients were instructed to maintain a vegan diet: no \u200emeat whatsoever, eggs, dairy or oil of any kind (even plant based oils).\u200e<\/p>\n<h2 dir=\"ltr\" style=\"text-align: center;\">Nothing with a mother; nothing with a face!\u200e<\/h2>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">The objective was to reach and maintain a total serum cholesterol level \u200ebelow 150 mg\/dl a LDL or bad cholesterol level below 80 mg\/dl.\u200e<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">Esselstyn, while well aware that heart health was dependent not only upon \u200enutrition but also physical activity, stress reduction and relaxation, chose \u200enot to fight his battles on all four fronts. He knew that from a physiological \u200eperspective, creation of sustainable change on the nutritional front alone \u200ewould be challenging enough. He had his work cut out for him.\u200e<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">Esselstyn was very strict with his patients. There would be no leniency, no \u200erounding of corners and no excuses. During his initial meeting he would \u200emeet his patients for a five hour seminar. He would utilize this time to \u200eexplain the science behind heart disease and make sure each patient \u200eunderstood how the SAD (Standard American Diet) had created the disease \u200eand how whole plant based foods would heal and create whole healthy \u200ehearts. Afterwards, for the first few years he met with patients on a \u200ebimonthly basis and later continued on a quarterly basis.\u200e<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" width=\"716\" height=\"403\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/EqKNfyUPzoU?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><em>Dad, you always loved a good story. You are probably well acquainted with \u200ethe Nazi pillage and plunder. During World War II, the Nazis confiscated \u200elivestock from the lowlands of Norway, Belgium, Denmark and Holland to \u200efeed its troops. I bet that you are unfamiliar with the following anecdote. It \u200ewas precisely during this time that the death rate from heart disease in \u200eNorway plummeted. When the war ended, it was business as usual as the \u200eformer average rate of death from heart disease returned to its former \u200e\u200e\u201cglory\u201d.\u200e<\/em><\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_2306\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-2306\" style=\"width: 716px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/hbne.co.il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/FORKS-OVER-KNIVES-norway_wwii.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-2306 size-full\" src=\"http:\/\/hbne.co.il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/FORKS-OVER-KNIVES-norway_wwii.jpg\" alt=\"FORKS OVER KNIVES norway_wwii\" width=\"716\" height=\"400\" srcset=\"https:\/\/hbne.co.il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/FORKS-OVER-KNIVES-norway_wwii.jpg 716w, https:\/\/hbne.co.il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/FORKS-OVER-KNIVES-norway_wwii-300x168.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 716px) 100vw, 716px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-2306\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Forks Over Knives<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><strong><em>Did you know that Dr. Esselstyn began his work in 1985? How is it that \u200eyou missed out on this incredible opportunity???\u200e<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">Of the 24 patients who began the original study, six dropped out in the first \u200eyear. They were unable to meet the basic qualifying conditions. The \u200eremaining 18 patients entered the study with a total of 49 coronary events. \u200eOnly one of the 18 patients suffered an additional coronary event when he \u200estrayed for a time from the study. When he returned there were no further \u200ecoronary events.\u200e<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">When Dr. Esselstyn began the study the mean total serum cholesterol for \u200ethe group was 237 mg\/dl. The following is the average data for the 5 year \u200eand 12 year respective periods.\u200e<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><a href=\"http:\/\/hbne.co.il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/esselstyn-averages.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-2307 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/hbne.co.il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/esselstyn-averages.jpg\" alt=\"esselstyn averages\" width=\"716\" height=\"187\" srcset=\"https:\/\/hbne.co.il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/esselstyn-averages.jpg 716w, https:\/\/hbne.co.il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/esselstyn-averages-300x78.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 716px) 100vw, 716px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">One can see here an amazing angiogram image from one of Dr. Esselstyn\u2019s \u200epatients, before and after the nutritional intervention. This picture is indeed \u200eworth a thousand words\u2026 \u200e<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_2305\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-2305\" style=\"width: 716px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/hbne.co.il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/esselstyn-angigram.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-2305 size-full\" src=\"http:\/\/hbne.co.il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/esselstyn-angigram.jpg\" alt=\"esselstyn angigram\" width=\"716\" height=\"351\" srcset=\"https:\/\/hbne.co.il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/esselstyn-angigram.jpg 716w, https:\/\/hbne.co.il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/esselstyn-angigram-300x147.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 716px) 100vw, 716px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-2305\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">http:\/\/www.dresselstyn.com\/huffpost.htm<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">Dr. Esselstyn and his wife Ann continue his work to this day. He treats and \u200eguides his patients while she demonstrates how to cook easy and \u200esustainable oil less whole food plant based meals. The diet\u2019s guidelines are \u200ebased around eight central principles:\u200e<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<hr \/>\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong>Eight Plant Perfect Principles<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\u200e1 Eat rolled oats daily.\u200e<br \/>\n\u200e2 Eat greens, leafy greens and a rainbow of colored vegetables.\u200e<br \/>\n\u200e3 Replace meats with beans and lentils.\u200e<br \/>\n\u200e4 Eat whole grains.\u200e<br \/>\n\u200e5 Eliminate all oils, even virgin olive oil!<br \/>\n\u200e6 Drink water.\u200e<br \/>\n\u200e7 Avoid sugar and salt.\u200e<br \/>\n\u200e8 Read labels well, especially the list of ingredients. \u200e<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><em>Dad, your tragic story continues to sculpt my path. Did you know that \u200eMom began her last two decades with multiple strokes? Although she \u200edeveloped that dreadful disease (Parkinson\u2019s), it was her weakened heart \u200ewhich lead her way to the next world.\u200e<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">Happily conventional western medicine is beginning to acknowledge that \u200eSAD (Standard American Diet) disease and chronic disease are one and the \u200esame. Healers who choose forks over knives are no longer crucified as \u200eheretics (at least not on the spot\u2026). The correlation between coronary heart \u200edisease and nutrition in particular is quickly become the accepted norm. \u200e<strong>News that heart disease can not only be cured but prevented via nutritional \u200emeans is making the headlines.\u200e<\/strong><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><em>Dad, you had an uncanny knack for extraordinary investments. I would so \u200elike to enter into a partnership with you and invest in a healthier future for \u200eour children and grandchildren. Imagine, for example, how huge savings in \u200enational healthcare could be created and directed towards a better \u200eeducation\u2026\u200e<\/em><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><em>Dad, can you imagine a sea of investors knocking on our door to invest in \u200e\u200e\u201c101 different types of legumes, vegetables which are red, yellow and green \u200eleafy, and fruit but especially the green leafy vegetables: buck choy, Swiss \u200echoy, kale, collards, collard greens, mustard greens, beet greens, Napa \u200ecabbage, Brussel sprouts, cauliflower, broccoli, cilantro, parsley, spinach \u200eand arugula?&quot; \u200e<\/em><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><em>Too bad that it\u2019s not going to happen anytime soon\u2026 There is a gold mine \u200ewaiting to be discovered!\u200e<\/em><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><em>With a broken heart which no amount of kale will heal,\u200e<\/em><br \/>\n<em>We loved not enough,\u200e<\/em><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><em>Your loving daughter <strong>H<\/strong>eleneie <strong>B<\/strong>ea<strong>N<\/strong>i<strong>E<\/strong> Cherubinie Wiskerinie \u200eRooterinie<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<hr \/>\n<h3 dir=\"ltr\"><em>I would like to thank you for your patience in reading this post to its end.\u200e<\/em><\/h3>\n<blockquote>\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><em>If you liked what you read and you are not on my mailing list, you can <a href=\"http:\/\/hbne.co.il\/?page_id=358\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">sign up \u200ehere<\/a>.\u200e<\/em><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><em>Finally I would like to request that you please share my post which precedes the \u200erelease of my animated clip (soon, I promise). I am so excited! <a href=\"http:\/\/hbne.co.il\/?p=1454\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Please share this \u200epost\u2026<\/a>\u200e<\/em><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><em>Thank you and have a great week!\u200e<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><a href=\"http:\/\/hbne.co.il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/07\/HBNE.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" size-full wp-image-1458 alignnone\" src=\"http:\/\/hbne.co.il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/07\/HBNE.jpg\" alt=\"HBNE\" width=\"718\" height=\"537\" srcset=\"https:\/\/hbne.co.il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/07\/HBNE.jpg 718w, https:\/\/hbne.co.il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/07\/HBNE-300x224.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 718px) 100vw, 718px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<h2 dir=\"ltr\" style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/hbne.co.il\/?p=1454\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">You tell your future! The power is ours!<\/a><\/h2>\n<div id=\"fb-root\"><\/div>\r\n<script>(function(d, s, id) {\r\n  var js, fjs = d.getElementsByTagName(s)[0];\r\n  if (d.getElementById(id)) return;\r\n  js = d.createElement(s); js.id = id;\r\n  js.src = \"\/\/connect.facebook.net\/en_US\/all.js#xfbml=1\";\r\n  fjs.parentNode.insertBefore(js, fjs);\r\n}(document, \"script\", \"facebook-jssdk\"));<\/script>\r\n<fb:like href=\"https:\/\/hbne.co.il\/?p=2320\" font=\"arial\" action=\"like\" layout=\"standard\" send=\"1\" width=\"\"  colorscheme=\"light\" show_faces=\"1\"  style=\"background:#FFFFFF;padding-top:0px;\r\npadding-right:0px;\r\npadding-bottom:0px;\r\npadding-left:0px;\r\nmargin-top:0px;\r\nmargin-right:0px;\r\nmargin-bottom:0px;\r\nmargin-left:0px;\r\n\"><\/fb:like>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A Daughter\u2019s Longing Dear Dad,\u200e You left abruptly. Although you made every effort to let us know that your \u200etime was limited, I chose to let your words pass over me. Your doctors \u200ewarned of severe arteriosclerotic heart disease with an exceptionally \u200eenlarged heart. A prompt heart transplant was your<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":7,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_exactmetrics_skip_tracking":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_active":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_note":"","_exactmetrics_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[22,41,39],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2320","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-en-blog","category-family","category-nutrition"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/hbne.co.il\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2320","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/hbne.co.il\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/hbne.co.il\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hbne.co.il\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/7"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hbne.co.il\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2320"}],"version-history":[{"count":9,"href":"https:\/\/hbne.co.il\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2320\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5548,"href":"https:\/\/hbne.co.il\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2320\/revisions\/5548"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/hbne.co.il\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2320"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hbne.co.il\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2320"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hbne.co.il\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2320"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}